Time of Meditation: Week of May 16

What?
Pray for the specific needs of others each day.

Why?
God is a perfect Father who loves to give good gifts to his children. He actually encourages them to rely fully on him, to ask, seek, and knock at his door (Matt 7:7-11), promising that when they ask according to his will, he hears and acts (1 John 5:14-15). God affects real change in the world through prayer. When we pair this truth with Jesus’ concern for sinners and sufferers, we begin to understand our need for intercessory prayer, prayer that lifts up the needs of others. When we do pray for others, we not only more closely align our hearts and wills with God’s, we love our neighbors well.

How?
Christians in our culture are generally pretty bad about not following through on prayer for others. We have all been on the giving and receiving end of a “I’ll be praying for you” that never resulted in prayer. How can we remedy that? 

Countering cynicism, doubt, disbelief. Sometimes we do not engage in intercessory prayer because we have prayed for particular circumstances before, and what we hoped would happen did not come to pass. There are plenty of good, theologically sound reasons why that might have been the case (also here), but those reasons don’t necessarily take away the sting of disappointment in the moment or the bite of cynicism that follows. Remembering the past faithfulness of God, what we need most is the prayer of the father who brought his demon-possessed son to Jesus on our lips: “I believe; help my unbelief!” (Mark 9:24).

Countering our limited understanding of needs. In an insightful article entitled “Pray Beyond the Sick List,” David Powlison exposes that most of us have a limited understanding of what we ought to be praying for. We regularly offer up what he calls circumstantial prayers, prayers that God would change circumstances. But the Bible includes very many more wisdom prayers, prayers that seek the Lord’s sanctifying grace, and kingdom prayers, high-level prayers that “ask God to change everything by revealing Himself more fully on the stage of real life” (emphasis original). Because we tend to focus on one to the exclusion of others, our intercessory prayers are limited and imbalanced. Our prayers for others would increase and deepen, perhaps, if we expanded the focus of our prayers, recognizing that our greatest need is essentially spiritual — to know and be known by God.

Countering our limited understanding of particular needs. Besides understanding needs generally, many of us don’t truly know the particular needs (circumstantial or spiritual) of those around us. We must pray for intentional relationships of substance and eyes to see true needs. In doing so, we might find, for instance, that a friend not only needs a new job but lessened anxiety and deeper trust in the Lord’s provision.

Countering forgetfulness and distractedness. The best tips that help us to remember our prayers for others involve writing something down — journaling our prayers, making a running prayer list, creating prayer note cards for specific people or certain needs, etc. It might also help to schedule a consistent time to pray and incorporate intercessory prayer as a regular part of that prayer time.

Countering lack of know-how. Still, after all this, we may feel like we simply do not know what or how to pray. We can look to some models of prayer for assistance. That may come by praying with others, or by praying written prayers. For the latter, Matthew Henry’s prayers of intercession based on Scripture is a great place to start.